12 years ago
Thursday, March 19, 2009
Loss
My father died this morning. So I didn't see him "one last time" or whatever, but I feel fine about that, actually. We had our goodbye in January, and I only had wanted to go see him if I thought it might give him some comfort. So that didn't happen, but that's ok. Apparently he went peacefully. I'm glad he's not sick anymore.
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I'm so sorry. Even though you are, and he was, at peace with it, it's probably still hard. Take care of yourself.
I'm so sorry to hear about your loss. Take care of yourself.
You have my sympathy.
You have my sympathies.
Please take sometime for yourself to process this. Don't be too hard on yourself if you have many different emotions.
I'm sorry for your loss--I know it's a complicated loss, a loss over time, but still, lots to process. I'm sorry.
I'm so sorry! Take care of yourself!!
I'm sorry to hear about his death.
No matter how complicated the relationship, the death of a parent is always difficult.
take care
My condolences.
I'm thinking about all the blogging you've done about your father and your relationship with him, and I hope that having articulated your feelings about the situation and the process will help you heal and feel a sense of clarity about your feelings. Thinking of you.
So sorry.
So very sorry for your loss.
(((((Dr. Crazy)))))
I'm very sorry to hear this, but grateful that you feel at peace. Much love, Crazy.
It's never easy but I'm glad you've made your peace with this and that you feel that you were able to have a good last get-together in January.
I'm sorry, and I hope you're doing well. It sounds like you had a complicated relationship but made the best sense of it that anyone could.
I'm so sorry. I'm glad you feel fine about having said your goodbyes and that he died peacefully. may perpetual light shine around him.
I'm so sorry. {{{hugs}}}
I'm sorry for your loss, and I'm glad you feel at peace. Take care, and good luck with all the other relationships and interactions that happen around this.
Peace and love to you, Dr. C.
I'm glad that he's not sick any more, too. I'm sorry for your loss.
(((hugs)))
I'm sorry - I'm glad you and he are at peace
I'm sorry for the passing of your dad - much peace being sent your way.
So sorry for your loss.
My condolences.
Take care of yourself, Crazy. This is a tough one. Best wishes
I'm sorry, crazy. I'm glad he died peacefully.
My condolences Crazy.
I'm sorry for your loss.
My condolences, Crazy.
I'm so sorry for your loss.
I'm so sorry.
So sorry for your loss--the one that happened years ago and now the loss of his presence here on earth. A while back, when you were blogging about the role you were willing/and wanted to play in your younger half-siblings lives once he was gone, I remember thinking that they would surely represent an easier connection to him than than he, himself, has for most of your life. Don't know if that makes sense, but I hope you guys are able to help each other through the different kinds of grief you must surely feel. Glad for you that he went peacefully.
I'm so sorry for your loss.
((((((Dr. Crazy)))))
((((((((((Dr Crazy))))))))
Condolences...
I'm so sorry ...
I'm so sorry, Crazy. Best wishes to you and all your family.
My condolences.
I'm so sorry to hear about your loss--thinking of you.
i am so sorry. you and your family are in my thoughts.
I'm so sorry! Even when it has been expected, it's always hard - take care of yourself!
My deepest sympathy.
I'm so sorry.
{{{Dr. Crazy}}}
My condolences. I'm so sorry.
I'm so sorry.
I hold you in the Light.
I'm just reading this now -- sorry to hear the news.
My condolences.
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