tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20099192.post115211854813858911..comments2024-01-28T03:35:51.182-05:00Comments on Reassigned Time: Random Things on My MindDr. Crazyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12457967076373916629noreply@blogger.comBlogger7125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20099192.post-1152343094384201882006-07-08T03:18:00.000-04:002006-07-08T03:18:00.000-04:00I shall confess to Sin #3 today: wearing a cartoon...I shall confess to Sin #3 today: wearing a cartoon character on my T-shirt. Yes, I went to the grocery store wearing a shirt with a sparkly "Betty and Veronica" on it. And I am NOT a petite woman.<BR/><BR/>Why? Because it was a gift from someone who knows I'm not frilly. And it makes me laugh, so I wear it for jobs I don't want to do (cleaning the floor, doing laundry, quick trips to the store...) to brighten up my day.<BR/><BR/>But to wear it seriously? Noooo...Terminal Degreehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16523014953046778630noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20099192.post-1152216475782279892006-07-06T16:07:00.000-04:002006-07-06T16:07:00.000-04:00There are so many things I could add to #1. For ex...There are so many things I could add to #1. For example, wear clothing so tight that you look like a Bob Evans Sausage is NEVER acceptable. Also, wearing shorts so short that you see the butt cheeks is wrong on so many levels.<BR/><BR/>I could go on, but I don't want to gross anyone out any more than I already have!Seeking Solacehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13605809609182729290noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20099192.post-1152196515566624012006-07-06T10:35:00.000-04:002006-07-06T10:35:00.000-04:00It's funny you would focus on the deployment of fe...It's funny you would focus on the deployment of femininity in public spaces of travel, for as someone who has been travelling quite a lot lately, I too have been reflecting on how American women in particular demonstrate image in these spaces in depressing and sometimes desperate ways. Along with the men, US women seem to want to either cultivate a thoroughly boring image, sometimes an ironically and unintentional lesbian androgenous image from the 70s, in other words comfort methodology (I mean, jeans and a t-shirt are rarely attractive on anybody alone, or the pyjama effect of looking like you should be making coffee in your kitchen alone, instead of rolling your suitcase past hundreds of people) or something super-sexy along very commercial lines. Now, I am a sexual omnivore, and find most bodies have something redeeming about them. That does not mean we can all wear thongs, baby-tees and flip flops. For one, many need a good pedicure, and until that time, please spare us the sight of your horrible toenails. But I digress.<BR/><BR/>I think part of this is the total collapse of the public and private in American society, which has led us to a moment where there are no rules of engagement, either on the field of the sartorial or of manners. As a larger man for most of my life (oh, and gay too), I have always been hyper-conscious of how I appear in public, what do I look like? Do they see me? What do they think? This self-policing can be oppressive, but the alternative, which is no self-awareness at all, is equally as bad. I will say I think men have a slightly easier job of it: the paradigm of masculinity does not leave us many sartorial choices, and as long as one is not wearing a skirt, you're probably OK, if your clothes are clean. American women, dealing with so many contradictory and powerful paradigms (motherhood, sexy seductrix, 'girl next door,' flirty girl, bad girl, make-up girl, sporty spice, etc ad nauseum) have a harder time of it. And these are also informed by class and education. I guess in the end I want people, men and women, to own their look, and not be unconscious about it. Oh well, la lucha continua!Oso Rarohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11345231159759787852noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20099192.post-1152126218045650902006-07-05T15:03:00.000-04:002006-07-05T15:03:00.000-04:00No, no, Crazy. The skinny jeans are your friend. T...No, no, Crazy. The skinny jeans are your friend. Trust me. Really. This is my job. Think: skinny jeans, baggy shirt and a belt at the waist (my outfit for tomorrow), or one of those long tshirts, dead simple and crazy beads, or a strappy short dress over them.... granted, cover the arse, but really really the possibilities are fucking ENDLESS. Am really such a lover of skinny jeans. Got to be tight. I'll permit bootcuts, but to be honest when skinny jeans go out I'll be gutted. Gives legs a fantastic shape. Do not resist the skinny jean. And you should see my shape. Big tits, big arse. Fortunately I have a decent waist. But the arse is still there. And I still wear them. I'm tempted to do a blog post about skinny jeans. Be Not Afraid, I'll call it. <BR/>(no one is more amazed than me at how passionate I got there)Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20099192.post-1152122613159783062006-07-05T14:03:00.000-04:002006-07-05T14:03:00.000-04:00Tippycanoe: I see your point about this applying t...Tippycanoe: I see your point about this applying to the non-petite as well. I suppose my thinking, though, is that if one has a tiny body, it's not quite as horrifying a style error to dress it as other tiny people (i.e., children) dress. Not that it's a good thing, mind you, but somehow less jarring. The reason I specify the non-petite, as well, is that I think that as a non-petite woman it's easy to fall into these traps thinking that one is more "feminine" or "girly" if one dresses like, well, a little girl. Smaller women, in my experience, tend not to worry about not appearing feminine to as great a degree.<BR/><BR/>And Clare, yes, I agree about what you mention above whole-heartedly! Might I just say that I am going to try my damndest to resist the Skinny Jean trend as it makes my ass look like it's the size of a double-wide trailor? Even when I'm at my smallest possible weight? Because I have HIPS? Sigh. Hate the skinny jean.Dr. Crazyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12457967076373916629noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20099192.post-1152122319355690032006-07-05T13:58:00.000-04:002006-07-05T13:58:00.000-04:00Agree wholeheartedly with first point, wish to add...Agree wholeheartedly with first point, wish to add jumpers with illustrations of labradors etc. <BR/>Oh, saw a really massive woman yesterday wearing a tankini and skinny jeans in town. That needs to go on the list too.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20099192.post-1152120715228646532006-07-05T13:31:00.000-04:002006-07-05T13:31:00.000-04:00Regarding your first point, I think this should de...Regarding your first point, I think this should definitely apply to all women, petite or not!unsafe.at.any.speedhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03282493419490937922noreply@blogger.com